Brought to you by the Virginia Mental Health Counselors Association
About the Event:
This presentation offers an engaging, inclusive introduction to polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM). Participants will learn key terms, historical context, and foundational ethical principles such as consent, honesty, and mutual respect. The session explores communication strategies, emotional challenges like jealousy, and common relationship structures. Legal issues and societal stigma are addressed, alongside practical tools for supporting clients in ENM relationships. Emphasis is placed on inclusivity, intersectionality, and self-reflection, helping professionals identify and challenge their own biases. Attendees will leave with greater confidence, cultural competence, and practical skills to ethically support individuals and families practicing non-monogamy.
Learning Objectives
- Understand Key Concepts and Terminology: Define and differentiate between polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships, swinging, and other related terms.
- Understand the historical and cultural context of polyamory and ENM.
- Explore Ethical Foundations: Analyze the principles of ethical non-monogamy, including consent, honesty, transparency, and communication. Examine the importance of mutual respect and the role of ethics in non-monogamous relationships.
- Identify and Manage Jealousy and Insecurity: Understand the psychological aspects of jealousy and insecurity in non-monogamous relationships. Develop strategies to manage and mitigate these emotions constructively.
- Navigate Relationship Structures: Explore various structures of non-monogamous relationships, including hierarchical and non-hierarchical arrangements. Understand the dynamics and challenges unique to each structure.
- Examine Legal and Social Considerations: Review the legal aspects of non-monogamous relationships, including issues related to marriage, custody, and healthcare. Discuss the social implications and potential stigma associated with ENM.
- Support Clients in ENM Relationships: Understand the unique challenges faced by individuals and families practicing ENM and how to provide effective support.
- Foster Inclusive and Non-Judgmental Spaces: Promote inclusivity and reduce bias in discussions about relationship styles. Understand the intersectionality of polyamory and ENM with other aspects of identity, such as gender, sexuality, and culture.
- Reflect on Personal Values and Biases: Encourage self-reflection on personal beliefs and biases regarding monogamy and non-monogamy. Understand the importance of defense recognition and reduction as a means to clinical improvement
About the Presenter
Dr. Ami Lynch, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker located in Virginia and licensed in 10 states. She is the founder of Rising Sun Therapy & Wellness, LLC where she is also a psychotherapist. With a warm, deeply affirming approach, Ami specializes in working with LGBTQIA2S+ individuals and those practicing, exploring, or struggling with ethical non-monogamy (ENM). Grounded in trauma-informed care, their practice is rooted in respect, collaboration, and cultural humility. Drawing from experience as a therapist, corporate leader, professor/educator, and advocate, Ami supports clients in navigating identity, relationship dynamics, and personal growth with compassion and clarity. Whether addressing anxiety, relational distress, or life transitions, Ami creates a space where all identities and relationship structures are seen, honored, and supported.